I would be surprised if we didn't have a higher than normal population of audiophiles among our ranks here. I can't be the only crazy audio nut here can I?
I have solved this whole issue by going partially deaf with very active tinitis. I can, however, still remember when it mattered.
All my stuff is going on 20+ years old and so far, beyond having to replace some drivers after an enthusiastic drunk (not me this time) raised the volume beyond the sane limit,
I heard that happen once. From about 1.5 km away
It was quite a large boom yes. A $1600 noise. Luckily the culprit owned up and paid for the repairs.