Sorry. I made 5.5 gallons and used a 6.5 gallon fermenter. I used 10 grams of lavlin d-47 yeast. I rehydrated the yeast for about 15 min in 100°f water. I used local raw raspberry blossom honey. I boiled a gallon of water for about 10 minutes and then added the honey and stirred until it was a'll mixed. Let cool for aboutb20 min then added the rehydrated yeast and aerated for about 5 minutes. I added 5 teaspoons of diammonium phosphate nutrient today. I read that I should aerated the must after to get more oxygen in. After doing so for 30 seconds it can gushing out. do have a hydrometer and the must was at 1.100. The only thing I used was honey yeast and then the nutrient afterwards. I realize now I needed it in the beginning.
Ok. SO your must is ok and will ferment to a probably dry mead. Hopefully tasty as well! But you will probably have to age it a while. Because you did a few things wrong, or that can be improved.
First, the recommended ammount of yeast for 5 gals is a bit higher. Probably one of the reasons you did not see much activity. But not the only one.
Second, The nutrients are added at the start, but not all of them. We do SNA or staggered nutrient additions, so we feed the nutrients in 3 or 4 times. Your nutrient is also not very good. Definitely better than nothing, but consider getting something better for next time, it does make a difference. The best one is Fermaid O (only organic nitrogen) and after that not as good but still better are Fermaid K/wyeast beer or wine nutrient/ other blends of organic nitrogen and inorganic nitrogen (DAP or diammonium phosphate). Do you see a trend? Organic nitrogen > DAP. The more organic the better. You also added probably too much DAP. But it'll probably be ok too.
Also, there is no need to boil the honey. In fact, we recommend never heating the honey above 104ºF because it loses its taste and aroma, and makes worse mead. So next time dump it in room temp water and stir for better results.
You should degas (carefully!) every day until the ferment slows down
*. Also we aereate the first 2 or 3 days (dont do it now, it probably wouldnt have any effect)
About rehydration, you did it quite ok, but read squatchy's link. Adding must to the yeast after those 15 minutes helps atemperate so there is not a lot of temp difference between the water with the yeast and the must.
Overall i'd say that your mead is ok. But you might need to age a bit longer than usual before it becomes good tasting stuff that deserves to be drank. Dont worry if you taste it in a couple week and it is not good. It'll get there
* After that you'll see the yeast piling up at the bottom. Shake or stir a bit every day/every two days for a month at least. After that let it settle for a week, then rack. This helps reducing off flavours--> Less aging and better taste